Discover Your Holy Grail Healing Year | April 17

What is it?

Healing isn’t something you do alone. That’s why we’re launching the third “Discover Your Holy Grail” Healing Year on April 17. For a whole year, you’ll embark on your personal healing journey alongside other heroes and heroines, uncovering old pain and breaking unhealthy patterns. Together, you’ll explore all kinds of themes related to your healing process, such as: How do I set healthy boundaries? How do I connect with myself, my pain, and others? Where am I in the survival system? How do I break free from my unhealthy patterns, addictions, or habits? How do I rise above my unhealthy patterns? Who am I, really? Or: how do I let go of (old) pain?

For a whole year, you’ll immerse yourself in a safe group of people who want the same thing you do: healing and breaking free from unhealthy patterns. It is precisely through the power of the group that you’ll find your process (finally!) making great strides forward.

What to expect.

We meet once a month (in person or online). We’re kicking off a full day of live programming on April 17. That’s where you’ll meet your fellow students for the first time, have a full day of classes, and be paired with someone you’ll be spending the next year with. Read on to find out what that’s like.

After two weeks, you’ll have your first (online) one-on-one session with Rianne to firmly establish your healing goal and work together to identify what’s still standing in the way of that goal. This gives you a huge boost at the start of your journey, because just two weeks later, you’ll meet everyone again live in the first online session—so, armed with new insights, you’ll have kicked off your year with a bang.

We’ll meet in person again on September 12; the third in-person session will be on January 23, 2027; and on April 3, 2027—at the end of your healing year—there will be one more full in-person session. In the months in between, we’ll meet online once a month, from 7:30 PM to about 9:30 PM. These sessions will be recorded (for the private group only), so if you’re ever unable to attend, you’ll have the opportunity to watch the session later. This is done via a replay link that’s only temporarily shared within the group, ensuring optimal security for everyone present during the recording. During the summer, you’ll receive two more videos from Rianne with an exercise and explanation.

“During the group work, I found that I was able to completely let go of my survival mechanism—my mask. I simply had to be myself—without putting on any facade—in a space where my trauma could be seen and heard, both by myself and by others.”

– Alexander

What will I learn in one year?

Throughout the year, we explore various themes related to your healing journey based on the theory from *Discover Your Holy Grail*—the books and podcasts. This will provide you with insights and many practical tools for healing in:

How do I accept myself and others?
How do I explore my feelings?
What impact does my family of origin have on my life today, and how can I break free from it?
What is my body trying to tell me?
What are my traumas, and how can I let them go?
What is the impact of serious violations such as abuse and mistreatment?
How do addictions develop, and how can I break free from mine?
How do I deal with anger and sadness?
How do I set healthy boundaries?
How can I live without unhealthy anxiety?
How can I ever look at the person who hurt me without judgment?
How do I set a course?
How do I live in alignment with my true self?

If other urgent issues come up on the first live healing day, Rianne would like to see how they can be incorporated into the annual program.

Schedule for (online) meetings

The in-person sessions and online session are structured (more or less) as follows:

Each session begins with a substantive presentation by Rianne on the day’s topic, followed by an exercise (for online sessions, you’ll have completed this in advance), after which we’ll take the time to discuss it in detail as a group.
Rianne will also answer any questions that come up during the session.
During a live day, there are 2–3 sessions; during the first online session, there are 2, and during each online evening session, there is 1.
Every session also includes time for bodywork.

One-on-one sessions with Rianne

Throughout the year, you can choose two additional times when you’d like to have an online or phone session with Rianne. You can use these sessions when you’re feeling stuck or if a particular topic is really getting to you.

Of course, you can always ask Rianne for help or advice throughout the year if you need it. During these current Years of Healing, people are taking full advantage of this, and Rianne encourages it as well: these are your moments of personal growth!

Your own travel companion

Once a week, you’ll call your travel companion to check in: how are you and the other person doing? Are there any issues that need attention? Are new questions arising, or is pain surfacing that hadn’t demanded attention before? You can share all of this with each other, but: you are not each other’s coach. That role belongs to Rianne and the facilitator. You’re there to listen and offer encouragement when things get tough. So even if the call is brief: just knowing that somewhere during the week you can share your process with someone makes you feel supported for a whole year. On the first day, Rianne will also give you tips on how to do that: be a travel companion.

What is the goal?

On the first day of healing, you set your own goal. It could be anything: feeling free, being yourself, or letting go of that one trauma… You share this goal with the Discover Your Holy Grail team so they can support you and guide you toward your chosen goal.

When is it?

The dates for this second Year of Healing are:

April 17: First live event, 10:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m.
May 10, 2:00–6:00 p.m.: Extra-long online session 1
June 8, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 2
Next up are two summer videos
September 12: Second live event, from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.
October 12, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 3
November 16, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 4
December 14, 7:30–9:30 p.m., Online Session 5
January 23: Live Day 3, 10:00 AM–5:00 PM
February 22, 7:30–9:30 p.m., online session 6
April 3: the final live event, from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

‘Rianne is a warm, gentle, and loving person. She truly listens to you—not just with her ears, but with her whole heart. With her, you feel heard and seen, exactly as you are. She touched me on a deep level, and because of this journey I was able to take with her, she will always hold a special place in my heart.’

– Chantal

Where and when is it? And how much does it cost?

What do you get for your money?

4 live healing sessions from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.
An in-depth personal session with Rianne at the start of your healing year to kick-start your goal
6 online sessions – from 8:00 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. on Monday evenings
2 bonus videos – these are videos featuring exercises and tips from Rianne to inspire you on your journey
Each month, you’ll complete one or more “discoveries” (exercises) related to the theme that will be discussed the following month; you’ll receive these digitally from the Discover Your Holy Grail team
Once a week, you check in with your travel buddy (even if it’s just for a moment)
2 additional online or phone sessions with Rianne, whenever you like. And you can reach out to her throughout the year if you need help
As a gift: The "Discover Your Holy Grail" books—with a personal message, of course—will be presented on the first day of healing. If you already have them, you can request two e-books instead, or you can pass the books on to someone else 😉 .

“The tools Rianne gave me have helped me connect more deeply with myself and stay in touch with that connection, as well as look at myself with more compassion. I look back on my coaching journey with Rianne with a very positive feeling, and if I were to run into any challenges again, I would definitely go to Rianne!”

– Niels

Reserve your spot

We would love to welcome you and spend the year together.

If the price is an issue for you, please ask about options such as paying in installments.

Terms and Conditions

In the unlikely event that you need to cancel, the cancellation policy as listed here on the website applies.
The weekend will take place provided there are at least 11 registrations. You will be notified no later than two weeks in advance whether the weekend will take place. If there are too few registrations, you will, of course, receive a full refund.